We’re now hearing more and more social media “Gurus” express their satisfaction (bragging) with how many Twitter followers and Facebook Friends/Fans they have. My reaction has been unpleasant and the thought of Twitter and Facebook freezing their accounts has been a mild desire.
It raises the question, do the numbers really matter? Most people tend to think so. And one could argue that they think that way because the experts are telling them to.
But this technology is about networking and “connecting” with your friends/followers. Connecting is the key word. Are you really connecting with thousands of followers and friends?
In addition to the “gurus” telling you to get thousands of followers and friends, ironically, they’re strongly advocating for you to be transparent. Transparency is not letting people know what you had for lunch.
Social networking is successful when you focus on quality. Quality trumps quantity in 3 ways:
1) Time. For social networking, you want to respond to comments of others and show interest in their posts. Obviously, this technique is less appealing to what everyone is writing. Focus on quality relationships and you’ll find yourself with more time to utilize social networking.
2) Fostering relationships. This builds off of point #1. In the offline world, networking works when you take time to meet with people and learn more about them. Why would it be any different online?
3) Trust. Despite the communication happening online, we’re still humans. Nothing will happen in your e- relationship unless you have some form of trust.
There’s a fine line between trust and authority in the online world. Many internet marketers preach the importance of authority, which means to be the trusted expert or resource in your topic.
It makes sense and is important but social networking works differently. Similar to a word of mouth referral in the offline world, you need the earned trust of your followers or friends online. When you have earned trust, you’ll see better results with your recommendations and links you refer people to.
Before taking the quantity approach in social networking, ask yourself how you’ll connect with others. Stay focused on connecting and developing trust with your followers/friends and you’ll be pleasantly surprised with the results and opportunities they create.




Reid


